I think of you all sad; you say to me that you’re not sure you ever loved him but so much of your life is wrapped into his. He tells you he is leaving and as you rationalize it you wonder if stopping him is the right thing to do as you know you are happy when he is away on business. Even the kids look happy when he is away. What do you do, where do you turn? I ask you what you want you say you dont know… what a dilema! I work with you.